The well known Manglik, Kuja Dosham or what
they call as Chevvai Dosham.
Mars, is identified as the Ruling planet of earth and known as
Bhoomi Karaka. It is denoted with Fire, Accidents, cuts, wounds, injuries, rudeness, anger, short temper, lethal weapon and
War. It is also a most feared planet in general and marriage alliance seekers in particular.
People in India are too scared about the planet Mars known as Kuja
or Mangal. If this Planet is placed in the 2nd, 4th, 7th or 8th houses from one's ascendant or from the Moon
sign in their horoscope/Natal Chart, then it is really difficult for them to find a suitable match and get married. It is
a very foolish idea that marriages in India are delayed only on this count. I know a number of persons affected by branding
them as "manglik" . They fear that if a person is married to a non manglik either one of them will die soon.
The fear of reduced longevity for one of the coupled makes everyone to think twice before the wed lock.
As many astrologers profess this as a major cause or set back for
one's marriage, many of the match making efforts are tactically rejected showing only on this count. No doubt, the planetary
influences are to the maximum extent causing some imbalances in everybody's life, it certainly cannot be taken as granted
to reject an alliance only on the ground that the person is "manglik".
My father, Late Shri Mukkur Ramabathrachariar has once clearly
explained to me that a number of matches can be found and suitable alliances can be arranged, if a proper study of the horoscope
is undertaken. For example, majority of the people who fall under Positive Blood group are having the planet Mars in their1-2-4-7-8
or 12th houses. However, there are exceptions given based on the placement of Mars occupying or in conjunction with some beneficial
planets. If these valuable points are ignored, then really one misses his/her suitable alliance and wrongfully confined and
coupled with other non matching ones.
Likewise, majority of the Non manglik horoscopes, which
I have seen are of Negative Blood groups where Mars is placed in their Natal Chart at 3-5-6-9-10 or 11th house from
Ascendant or Moon sign. Here again, many exceptions are given, someone having Mars in the 7th house can be of Positive Blood
group and some one who has the Mars placed in the 3rd or 5th of their natal chart can be of Negative Blood group. But leaving
the exceptions, majority of the cases are as aforesaid.
Although it is the placement of the Mars that is now being considered
here, let us discuss some most vital points too. If the birth time given is wrong, then the entire horoscope is wrong and
meaningless. In some cases, the Longitude & Latitude of the birth place is wrongly given, then too, the natal chart erected
goes wrong. In most cases, when the birth is taking place in the hospitals, the birth timing is not so seriously taken.
I found myself in the mess, that a staff nurse in the hospital
writing the timing as 2.30 PM, when my daughter was born at 1.06 pm exactly, and the doctor who attended the delivery confirmed
it to me personally & immediately on delivery. I was waiting outside the ward room when it happened. And I did check and
note the time. Alas, the staff nurse found her time to note the entries only at a time that was suitable to her, hence she
fixed the birth time! In such cases, can one fully depend only on the horoscopes' matching? Is there any astrologer who takes
the risk and blame for rejecting a perfect match, otherwise found to be manglik?
Also, there is a risk of of classifying a person as manglik,
if her/his birth takes place during a time, whence even the fraction of minute can change the natal chart housing positions.
They are known as border cases or the junctions, when actually they may not be one!
I emphasis here, for the readers to understand that manglik
is not any untoward. Nor should one have any fear of it. It is nothing but a classification of Blood group that can be
judged by the placement of Mars in their natal chart. In simples terms, Negative goes with Negative and Positive with Positive.
Whether it is electricity or human body, the rule is same. So when next time you search for an alliance, if you find the match
is perfect in every respect excepting the placement of Mars, then better you go for matching the blood group rather than fully
depending on the unpredictable astrology!!
I am not blaming the subject Astrology as unpredictable, predictably,
most of the astrologers do it in haste, without considering the consequences. The rules, exceptions and inclusions are there
to see, but just simply they stamp a person as manglik, if the Mars is placed in the houses of 1-2-4-7-8 & 12.
This is where they fail and mismatch many horoscopes that fails in practical life.
No doubt, the ancient scholars did a splendid job by identifying
many of the planetary influences on the Earth, but they never would have thought about our present day astrologers influences!
Oh, how many perfect suitable marriage alliances are rejected, how many mismatched ones are coupled and how many divorces
and death takes place just because of horoscope mismatched bondages!
OH, NO MORE MISMATCHES, please. Just check
the other qualities of the prospective bride or groom, if only on the ground of manglik it is rejected, then
better you go for Blood Group check and match it fine from there on. And this way, you
can escape and be saved from the HIV infected alliances too!
I am sure, the contents given above are an eye opener to many of
the alliance seekers and I write this with good intentions. Surely, I am not blaming any Astrologers or their profession,
but underline the need to go for soul searching. In practical terms, I did come across as many as 300 horoscopes, that were
matched by astrologers as best suited, but actually the female partner suffers more, when the blood group is a mismatch. This
too, most often occurs, when they are pregnant and also post birth problems are of more serious in nature.
Father is positive - mother is of negative blood group. And if
the child born with positive group, then the breast feeding is a complicated one. Like wise for the negative blood group father
and positive blood group mother and if the child is of negative blood group, again same sort of problem occurs.
So, be sure, you match the blood group, when you are branded
as or in doubt about the Kuja Dosham, Manglik or Chevvai Dosham. This will certainly give you the scientific
value, if you consult a medical practitioner too in this regard.
***To be continued & more contents will be added shortly.***