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For Gender Selection - Baby Boy or Baby Girl? Here is the suggestion.


How to conceive? - Do you know this is a real thing..?!

For the benefit of the Newly married couples (Hi Newlywed couples - congratulations!) I post this article. Prayer is the most effective one, one can safely state. Still the Newlywed couples needs some guidance in many ways that will brighten & shine in their life. Here goes: Now you can plan and chose the GENDER of your baby Boy or Girl by using the Chinese planner chart given at the bottom of this page, according to your needs. The Chinese calendar varies from the Universal one so the approximate correction given according to English Calendar.  This is only a suggestive method, though proven accuracy in maximum number of cases; the author does not hold any responsibility for any  result   arising out of it usage.    

For A Happy married life and to gain full mental peace and also to create a new Healthy generation aye give below few suggestions. Aye am sure, if strictly adhered to these, every follower would surely benefit a lot more and enjoy a full life span with developed mental happiness.

To know and to follow these, you must keep handy a panchangam or Almanac so that you can easily identify the dates suitable to your birth stars and moon sign.

To begin with, know your and your life partner's birth star and moon sign. You can find it in your horoscope or just
send me an E-mail with details such as : Name, sex, date-time & place of birth. I shall send you your accurate birth star/moon sign within three days,

Avoid any new ventures on any of your birth star days. On these days you will be a bit of tense and the body level pressure is likely to be fluctuating than normal days.

Avoid all important decision makings on the Chandraashtama days i.e. when moon transits through the eighth house to your moon sign. These days are very bad, especially people born on the Krishna Paksha i.e. after full moon day but before New moon day.

Also avoid Pradamai thithi - i.e. the immediate next day to New moon & Full moon days, then Ashtami & Navami - i.e. 8th & 9th days from New moon and Full moon days.

So far said is for common and avoidable days to start or begin any new ventures. The next is most vital that it deals with your personal life.

For every married couple, who are planning to have a child, the aforesaid stars, thithi and Chandraashtama applies more so if one intends to go for a child. In addition to above days they will have to avoid Bharani and Krittika nakshatra days too. If the couple can avoid all above dates/days, they will get hardly six to eight days left in a month to have physical relationship among husband & wife. Added to these 3 to 5 days gone - whence the natural monthly cycle period passes. (This mostly occurs during the avoidable Chandraashtama or Janma nakshatra days only for the majority of women, I can safely state here).

When then one gets the opportune time to plan and get their issues/child? Is there any suitable days recommended, especially for newly wedded couples? What if they enjoy life as they wish & like?

I just give below the negative aspect in the first place. So that one can understand the importance of Thithi & Nakshatra and find out a solution to fit there needs!

**A woman conceiving on a Amavasya (new moon day) or Pradamai(the immediate second day from new moon/or of a full moon day thithis, delivers a spastic/under developed child or mentally unsound child.

**Women who conceive on her Chandraashtama day delivers a child who will be weak, suffers frequent ailments and illness and suffers with memory loss in the young age it self.

** If conceived on the Ashtami or Navami thithis, then the child likely to grow with some arrogance, aggressive tendency and never learns to adjust to the surroundings/situations.

** If Amavasya day also happens to be the Chandraashtama day for women who conceived on that day, and if Surya Dasha/Buktis too runs then, the child born will, mostly be blind or with defective eye sight.

** In addition a couple has to avoid having sex, a day when the husband goes for hair cutting (this is to avoid barber itch - related deceases), when one takes oil bath (to avoid body over heating) and when any of them suffering from dysentery (to maintain normal kidney functioning).

** Also one has to avoid sex on the day when any one of them goes on fasting, feeling headache, or any other urinary infections.

** If a couple can avoid having sex on the aforesaid days and follows strictly and plans for a child, the conceiving probability will be high on the other days, thus giving birth to a good and healthy baby.

** The timing for this should be chosen between 3 and 5 AM on any suitable day. By this timing, food consumed earlier night is almost digested and the early morning freshness in the air/ozone layer is rekindling one's body and mind. This timing called as "Brahma Muhurtham" in the Vedic scripts.



Based on the Jaathaga Paarijaatham, an Indian Vedic script describing the astrological points and methodology, I reproduce the options on conceiving a child/Gender selection. Readers will note the points and plan accordingly. It is generally and medically not advisable to have sex on the menses periods of a woman. From the time of menses, five full days to be avoided for relationship. If by any chance a woman conceives on these days, then the child is born with abnormalities and short-lived one.  Desirable results can be obtained by following the information, according to ones needs. It is almost a kind of natural cycle that enriches the Gender Selection of your choice. This way of calculations is still widely followed in Southern part of India and particularly from Kerala. To any woman, to conceive is a GIFT and those are the one who are blessed by the God.



Day 06 = A boy who preserves his traditions and values.


Day 07 = A girl born with private organ defects or impotency


Day 08 = A boy born with manly organ defects or impotency


Day 09 = A blessed girl with beauty and brain


Day 10 = A healthy and sound boy


Day 11 = An Ugly girl with uneven shape and odd look


Day 12 = A boy with knowledge, wisdom and kind


Day 13 = A characterless girl with sinful acts


Day 14 = A boy with noble character and wisdom


Day 15 = A beautiful girl with good and generous qualities


Day 16 = A boy with good qualities of a scholar, learned and practical.


You will notice, from the day of menses first five days are to be avoided from start of menses day and again days 7, 8, 11 and 13th days for having physical relationship. To conceive an healthy and fittest child, this calculations to be kept in mind. From days 17th to next menses course, it is called safe period whence the chances of conceiving are remote. (days to be Counted from first day of menses - starting day as day one and so on).

*** Now, for the positive side :

Human body in itself is a mystery!  No one can say for sure that one has  fully control and knowledge of one's own body. Yes, now you can simply do this following test and find whether you are aware of this.

Now take a deep breath. Exhale the same slowly. Check with your pointing finger taking it near to your nose,  from which nostril the breathed air is coming out. From right or left nostril ? or from both side nostrils?

The system functioning of  our body releases the carbon through right and left nostrils alternately and the third cycle emission from both side of nostril. This you can check yourself for sure.


If the carbon is released through your right nostril then it is a good omen. When starting to do some thing new or when moving out of your home for some auspicious functions, check your breath is emitted from your right nostril. If it is from the left nostril or when the flow is from both nostrils then wait for few minutes to continue. The best timing for having sex with your partner is while the emission is from your right side nostril.

For Women

 When the emission of carbon is from your left nostril, then it is the best time for you to start your activities. Also while planning for a child and having sex see that the carbon emission is through your left nostril. If emitted from both nostrils or from the right one, then it is considered inauspicious.



From time immemorial, Indian habitats used to depend on nature's wealth more than any count. And they were very successful in getting things done of their choice. The way they used the herbals then and now is really a wonder that they could pin point the value of each and every herbs that they found on the earth!

Tulsi, (Sacred or Holy Basil or Osimun Basilicum) a commonly available plant has a very high rich medicinal value. For normal cold and cough it is used as a home remedy, even to treat a new born child. It has no side effects. A non poisonous and very commonly available throughout India. There are two varities; one black and the other white. Black varitity is generally used for medicinal purposes and the white one is used at all Temples and prayer halls for distribution.

For any one who wants to postpone conceiving, they have to intake at least 20 Tulsi leaves every day in the morning. If the couples takes this for consecutive 3 to 4 months, that too regularly without any interval, then the conceiving probability is almost reduced or NIL. To gain more effectiveness, one has to take it in the empty stomach. If continued for 6 months, then at least for next 12 to 18 months a woman never conceives.

This is a natural contraceptive available and very cost effective. Further more there is no risk of any side effects or slow poisoning. In addition, the essence of this plant Tulsi increases the blood circulation and also function as an antibiotic, in a natural way!

Hence I strongly recommend this method for those who want to plan their family way of life, without using the chemical combinations and oral pills. There are many more suggestions given in the Indian Scripts about this subject. Any one who needs information on these may contact me for details. 

Now for the practical purposes I just give below the best period for a women to conceive. If you are planning for a child and to conceive in a very positive way, apart from the above notes, you must follow the guidance of the Medically Proven methods also. From the 7th day of a women's menstrual course till the 15th day the chances are very bright for conceiving.

From the 15th to 22nd day from one's MC period, the chances are very lean and later till the next cycle course it is called safe period when 99% chances of not conceiving. For child birth and normal delivery, a woman must be active all along from the day of conceiving and to take more calcium in her daily food. This prevents miscarriage and give good strength and vigour to the women and the conceived child too.


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